His Only Wife by Peace Adzo Medie โ€“ 288 pages

ARC from Algonquin Books and Netgally for an honest reviewย 

Book Blurb:

Afi Tekple is a young seamstress whose life is narrowing rapidly. She lives in a small town in Ghana with her widowed mother, spending much of her time in her uncle Piousโ€™s house with his many wives and children. Then one day she is offered a life-changing opportunityโ€”a proposal of marriage from the wealthy family of Elikem Ganyo, a man she doesnโ€™t truly know. She acquiesces, but soon realizes that Elikem is not quite the catch he seemed. He sends a stand-in to his own wedding, and only weeks after Afi is married and installed in a plush apartment in the capital city of Accra does she meet her new husband. It turns out that he is in love with another woman, whom his family disapproves of; Afi is supposed to win him back on their behalf. But it is Accra that eventuallyย wins Afiโ€™s heart and gives her a life of independence that she never could have imagined for herself.

My Review: 3.5 stars

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His Only Wife by Peace Adzo Medie is a fascinating look into a complicated arranged marriage in Ghana. This book starts with a wow, as the bride is getting married to a groom in absentia. Yes, apparently thatโ€™s a thing, not necessarily common, but it happens.ย 

Although her groom Eli, is living with and in love with another woman, his family is certain, that heโ€™ll give up his baby mama and relationship to be with our protagonist, Afi. Afi is not okay with this but is being continually coerced to live with a part-time husband in a rented flat, rather than live in his mansion and what should be her true home.ย 

Much of this story is about a woman learning to speak her voice, and even more importantly itโ€™s about being heard. As the story progresses, we see her get stronger as she realizes what is most important to her. A man, a family? Maybe, but not if the man is not 100% in. I was not surprised by the ending as it felt predictable based on the type of man Eli is.ย 

I am surprised that the meet ups with Abraham didnโ€™t lead to something. Iโ€™m not sure why those scenes were in the book as they felt purposeful. Maybe for a sequel? Who knows? Either way, I really enjoyed this Ghanaian tale and look forward to reading something else from this author.ย 

Quotes I liked:

A person who talks so freely about her own life will talk just as freely about yours.โ€

โ€œIf there was one thing I agreed with my mother on, it was that one could never be sure about a personโ€™s intentions, no matter how kind that person seemed.โ€

โ€œI knew that even though we were surrounded by a large family, we had nobody.โ€

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