Anna is a planner. So when she discovers sheโs pregnant, she prepares for a perfect new life in Provenรงe, France, with her perfect new baby-to-be. Annaโs partner, the easy-going Tobias, shouldnโt have too much difficulty tagging alongโafter all, heโs a musician who rarely starts his day before noon. But all that changes when their baby is born severely disabled.
Anna, Tobias, and their daughter, Freya, end up in a rickety, rodent-infested farmhouse in a remote town in Franceโfar from the mansion in Provenรงe they had imagined. Little do they know that this is the beginning of what will become an incredible journey of the heartโone during which they learn there really is no such thing as a mouse-proof kitchen. Life is messy, and itโs the messy bits that make it count.
If youโre a gardener, a cook or simply a mother, this book will resonate with you in numerous ways. I adored this book mostly because of the blunt and caustic honesty that made me flinch when I read certain passages; but at the same time I understood and identified with the emotions and feelings behind those words. ย This author is a documentary filmmaker and first time novelist, yet the general topic of the book is loosely based on her own life as a mother to a severely disabled child. I believe that because the author truly lives through the trials (and triumphs) of having a mentally disabled child, she can use her dark humor in a way that otherwise wouldโve been misunderstood by the reader. I loved these characters and and how nature played such a huge role in their individual lives as well as those around them. There are metaphors at play throughout the book and descriptions that had me touching wisteria and smelling all the ingredients for a good compost. Excellent writing and very real story. Well done.
Quotes I liked:
Itโs a perfect moment. One of those rare times when you wouldnโt prefer to be anywhere else, doing anything else. Where past and future melt away and thereโs only now.โ
– โWe were running away, I think–but when you run away, of course, you arrive somewhere, and then you have to deal with that.โ
– โAnna, the only thing we truly possess is time. We just have to learn what to do with it.โ
– โYou need to keep a step ahead of nature and you never can, not completely. You need nature and you fear it, you work with it and around it. Above all, you respect it. You pay attention. Making things grow requires structure and discipline.โ
-โBut of course you must nag Tobias,โ she says. โHow else is he supposed to know that you love him.โ
– โLove is the earth that holds our roots in place. Without it, thereโs nothing to keep us from falling over.โ
,Heartbreaking story!! I couldn’t wrap my head around how Anna spoke or thought Freya sometimes. It was like she forgot that Freya was her child,let alone a human being!!
Arlyn, I agree. That’s probably what I liked so much. It was the raw honesty that you don’t often hear from mother and child. Glad you enjoyed even though at times, it was heartbreaking. best, L
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Can’t wait to read it !
,Heartbreaking story!! I couldn’t wrap my head around how Anna spoke or thought Freya sometimes. It was like she forgot that Freya was her child,let alone a human being!!
Arlyn, I agree. That’s probably what I liked so much. It was the raw honesty that you don’t often hear from mother and child. Glad you enjoyed even though at times, it was heartbreaking.
best,
L